It has been a long time since I attended a holiday gathering with family and friends to break bread and engage in camaraderie and conversation. And, just like most holiday gatherings, there were always great expectations, not necessarily for the pinch on my cheek by my Aunt Frances, but more so for the holiday meal. Ah yes, to dig into the abundance of stuffing … lots of stuffing, a treat we only had when there was a holiday bird. (This was long before Stove Top Stuffing debuted 50 years ago, in March 1973.) We didn’t have ham very often as my grandmother always had a ham in the fridge, so it wasn’t really a holiday treat.
There were also Mom’s prized pies, tiny tarts and shortbread breakers to savor and, because I was the “baby” in the family, I always got the drumstick (sometimes two, depending on the size of the bird). Then there was the expectation of breaking the wishbone the following day once it dried out– would I get the bigger piece and my wish would be granted? Now, many years later, those gatherings are mere memories to reflect upon like vintage movie reels running in my mind. Photo albums brimming with images of our smiling faces as loved ones locked arms, are remembered moments that help keep those small family gatherings alive, especially since all of the participants but me are now gone.
These days I have a different type of holiday gathering and it’s not an idyllic Norman Rockwell-type scene, but instead one where I, alone, preside at the “dinner table” and dole out goodies, but, instead of passing the mashed potatoes, then handing over the gravy boat, I am sharing treats with my furry and feathered friends at Council Point Park – yes, it is our annual Thanksgiving feast which I will memorialize in today’s post.
Admittedly, there are great expectations on both our parts: the squirrels and birds anxiously await the goodies I have toted along and, as for me … well I hope for fun photo ops to share in this forum. So, in our respective ways, we find gratitude and give thanks for one another.
I find peace and happiness there.
If you’re a regular reader of my blog, you know 2023 marked one decade of walking at my favorite nature nook and, even though I may stray to larger venues on most weekends, I always return here where I got reacquainted with nature and my camera back in 2013. (I began my walking regimen in 2011 when I started working from home.)
My morning meanders are the best part of my day and I’m grateful to “get away from it all” just one mile away at Council Point Park. My weekday morning routine, all year around, unless I have errands/appointments, or the weather outside is frightful, is to head to this venue to “reset” my mind. After sipping coffee and downing a bowl of oatmeal, having absorbed the often horrific morning news headlines, I find gratitude that I have an option to escape from it all by simply snapping off the radio, stepping out the door and enjoying this little nature nook embedded in the middle of our City. It’s a peaceful place to “walk on the wild side” that is, until I eventually leave to return home and begin my workday.
Truth be told, I am happy if I get to the Park and no one bothers me … that is, except for the squirrels and birds … they are allowed. No, I don’t want to re-hash the political events, murder or car crash stats, or any of the other local, national and international sordid and horrid things that made up the newscast I just left behind. Since I don’t have pets, I am more than happy to have adopted my Park pals, be they feathered or furred and, whether they look at their benefactor as “The Peanut Lady” or “Snow White” I nurture them and give them sustenance, especially now as they frantically cache food for the Winter. I think and hope they know I am a constant all year around, but fractious Winter weather sometimes keeps me housebound, rather than risking a car crash, or a tumble on snowy and icy roads or Park walking paths. I try to make up for it when I return, lavishing extra food on them.
The critters anticipated their goodies, which I dropped in three places.
On that beautiful October morning …
… I arrived juggling two large store bags, one hooked onto each elbow, I saw many pairs of eyes peering at me. Yes, they scoped me out from their respective perches, like these squirrels …
… or the various birds that have a “bird’s eye view” to scope out my arrival, like “Rex” the Red-bellied Woodpecker.
Though I got no photos of Mr. and Mrs. Cardinal that day, they perch nearby every day for peanuts or sunflower seeds, patiently awaiting the more-boisterous Blue Jays to swoop down and then they venture forth. Here are a few Jays waiting for me to leave to grab a peanut. They announce my arrival to other Jays in a cacophony of noisy shrieks.
I’m sure their eyes took in the size of the bags and their brain gears clicked: “whoa, are those bags all filled with peanuts or maybe walnuts, or sunflower seeds?” Yes, visions of those goodies danced in their heads like those proverbial sugarplums.
The Black-capped Chickadee positioned itself under the Safe Haven Tree, checking for “leftovers” from my last visit.
Moments later, having shimmied down trees, or having stood up so they can see what’s happening, a scurry of squirrels scurried over to greet me, bobbing and weaving through the crispy leaves …
I am sure there was gratitude as I neatly stacked corncobs and pumpkins side-by-side, though the often precocious and sometimes petulant Parker whined on behalf of this munch bunch: “but where are the peanuts Linda?”
Various birds swooped down, mindful of their much larger, peanut-eating counterparts, but hovering close by anyway, awaiting the doling out of goodies.
But, no worries guys and gals because yes, I was toting peanuts too, so the critters purposely stood their ground, (or perch as the case may be), knowing full well that they could disregard those veggies, but they’d still get peanuts and sunflower seeds. So yes, I relented, sucker that I am. 🙂
A few corncobs and pumpkins were left at the pavilion area …
… followed by a “drop” at the Safe Haven Tree (named because it protects the critters from Hawks swooping down while my Park pals are eating).
Last, but not least, was my final stop by the bushes near the Creek shoreline, also a safe spot for critters to dine without fear of Hawks.
They humored me, tried the weird treats but did a “sniff test” first.
Here are some of my little friends gathered ‘round one of the “holiday tables” and deciding peanuts or sunflower seeds were the safest bet and they’re easier to carry away too.
The “doubters” insisted on inspecting unidentifiable objects nestled next to their beloved peanuts, before they indulged. As usual, a “sniff test” was in order.
Meanwhile, back at the pavilion area, the odd-shaped treats had been investigated and tried, but only after peanuts and sunflower seeds had been eaten.
A Blue Jay ate the corn kernels from the bottom of the bag that I scattered around the pavilion area.
My woodland friends pals were happy for their treats … yes there is gratitude for full tummies, but there is gratitude on my part too for this mini-escape to walk and tender treats and I’m always happy for the respite to get away from it all, albeit briefly.
Are you wondering about the header image? My high school pal Carol, whom I’ve not seen in 50 years (since high school graduation) and now lives in New York, sent me this mug earlier this week. She is a fellow nature lover and knows I like squirrels, so she sent it as a surprise. The name of the mug design is “Party Under the Feeder” – next year I will insist Parker don a corn cob hat for my Thanksgiving post.
Click here for a Thanksgiving week card … a moment of bliss to enjoy.
I hope you have a safe and joyous Thanksgiving holiday.
I am joining Terri Webster Schrandt’s Sunday Stills Challenge: #Finding Gratitude, Giving Thanks